Card #1 · Level 1
“What I Admire About You Right Now”
This card helps you see who your partner is becoming in this season.
Each person silently reflects on their partner’s growth over the last 6–12 months.
Then, take turns sharing:
3 things you admire about how your partner is showing up in life right now
1 way their growth has impacted you or the relationship
Speak to qualities (courage, tenderness, persistence, creativity), not just achievements.
Let the other person breathe in each reflection without needing to reply or reciprocate immediately.
Debrief prompts
- How did it feel to be seen for who I am becoming, not just what I do?
- Which piece of admiration surprised me the most?
- Did this card shift how I see my partner’s recent struggles or efforts?
- What part of my partner’s growth do I want to actively support?
- Did I notice any resistance to fully receiving admiration?
Private debrief
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