Card #1 · Level 1
Story of Us: First Impressions
This card invites you back to the beginning – when everything felt new.
Sit together and take a moment to remember your very first meetings.
Then, each of you shares:
Your first impression of the other
A tiny detail you remember (clothing, smell, something they said)
The moment you realized, “Oh… this might be something.”
Let yourselves laugh, correct each other’s memories, and add details.
If emotions come up (tenderness, nostalgia, sadness), make space for them.
End by each completing the sentence:
“I’m glad we made it from there to here because…”
Debrief prompts
- What early memory still makes me smile the most?
- Did we remember the same details, or different ones?
- How has my impression of my partner changed since then?
- Did revisiting the beginning shift how I feel about us today?
- What early quality in my partner do I want to notice and cherish again?
Private debrief
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