Card #1 · Level 1
Love Languages in Real Life
Most couples know about “love languages” – but fewer translate them into actual habits.
Each of you chooses your top two love languages (e.g. words, quality time, touch, acts of service, gifts).
For each love language, agree on 1–2 very specific, realistic actions.
Example: “Quality time” → phones away at dinner twice a week.
Example: “Words” → one encouraging message during the workday.
Write these down somewhere you both can see.
Think of this as your “love languages in practice,” not just in theory.
Debrief prompts
- Did I feel accurately understood in my love languages today?
- Which agreed action feels easiest to give to my partner?
- Which one feels like it will stretch me a little?
- What support do I need from my partner to keep these habits alive?
Private debrief
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